Have you ever wondered…
“I don’t know if I’ll ever get married.”
“Why didn’t somebody tell me this before I got married?”
“I’m married but I didn’t sign up for this!”
Does getting married scare you after watching other marriages? Are you clueless about marriage or do you romanticize it?
Let us support you one heartfelt conversation at a time to ensure you are properly aligned for a happy, healthy marriage. You have support here.
The Before You Do Podcast
“The Before You Do Podcast with Verlyn showed me it’s the little everyday things that cement relationships.” A.J.
“As a young person Verlyn helped me realize the difference between being able to compromise and being overly accommodating.” M. T.
On the Before You Do Podcast
We have life-changing conversations that spark meaningful aha moments.
Society gives the impression that we can’t get married or stay married. As you listen to The Before You Do Podcast, you will hear the many accounts of happily married women and couples. People are still getting married. More than ever before podcasts such as The Before You Do Podcast are here to support and uplift its listeners by answering difficult questions, calming anxiety over marriage, and addressing uncertainties.
You will be able to answer questions such as: Why do I want to be married? What does my ideal spouse look like? Do I know what men really need and want? Am I happy with myself or looking for happiness in someone else? These are just a few questions you’ll be able to answer with confidence.
Verlyn Tarlton
Podcast Host & Premarital Coach
Verlyn is on a mission, using her podcast and digital resources, to support a million women with getting properly aligned to be happily married.
Digital Resources
Find valuable resources you can purchase, download, and use immediately.
As a divorced woman, Verlyn is helping me bridge gaps and learn how to be the woman God called me to be. – ML
Life-changing Experience

When Verlyn told me that marriage is ministry, the light bulb came on. – A.J.
Thoughtful
Wisdom

This is like free premarital counseling at its finest! Definitely sharing this! – C.N.
Resonates
Deeply


I love these podcasts, they’re full of super thought-provoking topics, and much-needed advice. The episode that hit home for me was “Blended Family”. I was married, and we both had children from previous relationships. She touched on every single thing I experienced in that marriage. The advice she gave was like a light turned on. If I’m ever in this situation again I’ll reflect on the advice given. As she said, red flags don’t change. Run, before you say I do. Negotiation isn’t necessary, or realistic, in most cases. Don’t let my desire to be married obscure my discernment. – C.Y.
Take the first step.
Preparing you for marriage and helping you stay married.
May you experience extraordinary love, bye for now.